The True FREEDOM of Forgiveness

Breaking FREE of your own internal prison

Hello Butterflies…

It is with my warmest regards that I bring to you some information in healing your heart today!

There is a very powerful triple Conjunction planetary alignment/Solstice/Full Moon energy on the Planet this week that is pulling at everyone’s deepest Heart strings (literally)..

The power of this “Triple Treat” full moon is bringing up change for us all and without a doubt has had an impact on all of us and our emotional tides!

With that said, the reason for this is because like the Moon moves the tides in the ocean… so does it move the tides within us!

Stuff is being stirred up n us that we have no choice but to deal with.

Beautiful Souls…..

We are all moving into a New Paradigm of Frequencies on the planet and in our own energy bodies……(Even if you are not someone who is aware of or believes in the Human Energy field, it is still happening to you!)

So many MIRACLES are manifesting for all of us recently!!! The Energy on the planet is raising in frequency more and more every single day as more and more Humans are waking up to realize that they DO have a choice and they we ARE our own keepers!

As these profound spiritual awakenings are happening faster and faster now…. the LOVE energy continues to warm our hearts more and more every single moment….

This month alone, there are so many celestial events occuring for the unique purpose of helping us shift our perspectives from feeling like we are a victim to our circumstances….. to KNOWING that we are in fact Survivors and VICTORS!!!

Every single thing you have gone through in your life has been on purpose… for a purpose…. to lead you to your life’s purpose! (Believe that!)…

Now that you are awake and aware that you are a spiritual/energetic being in physical form…….

it is time for you to finally let go of everything you thought you knew… everything you thought you were…. and heal those Heart chakras……… truly do the “Soul Work” you came here to do…..

so that you can finally align with your highest and best future of magic and miracles and service unto others! (That is why we are here as light workers… to serve Humanity during this evolution process)….

Now since we are talking about Miracles……. let me just say that in order to align with miracles in your life, you must change your perspective and change your mind on how you feel about unconditional love and forgiveness….

Because the Heart Chakra is at the Heart and soul of New Beginnings…..I felt it appropriate to learn about the “Heart Chakra” and all her glory today!

The power of all these celestial events happening this month are bringing up so much immense change for us all and without a doubt has had an impact on all of us and our emotional tides!

Things have come to light for many and although so many of us in our culture still are not believers in the “Chakra” systems and “Energy” medicine… the non-believers are feeling the affects too (even if they do not realize or understand this).

If you have been feeling sick this week for no reason (that you know of) it is because your heart chakra is in a sort of “Reboot”…

The Heart Chakra is an energy vortex that pulls love, compassion, intimacy, empathy, forgiveness, and self-love energy in and out of our entire beings!

SO if your Heart Chakra is plugged up with muck of the past, limited beliefs, Depression, Jealousy, greed, or egotistical thoughts… you will physically feel sick!

The Heart Chakra controls the Heart, lungs, diaphragm, upper spine, shoulders, arms, and your circulatory systems (including blood and lymph).

If you are holding on to negative emotions and unforgiveness.. you best believe that these physical areas in your body will suffer the consequences of it!

There was a situation this week where someone who has historically (in the past) done very bad things to me in my life is going through one of the worst things imaginable and is in a crisis:

However….My love and compassion (pure empathy) that I have felt for this person is unconditional.

Someone asked me “Becky.. I just do not understand how you can even feel the least bit sorry for that person after everything that person has done to you!”


“How can you possibly even care about that person’s well being?”

To this I state with a HUGE amount of LOVE ENERGY……

Listen…. When I had my spiritual awakening, I learned many things. One of them being..

FORGIVENESS is the key to a healthy Heart Chakra (which also means a healthy physical heart).

I learned that I must let everything that I was carrying around with me go..

literally let it come to the surface, truly let myself feel the hurt (emotion) of it, think about (and pray) the lessons I was meant to learn from the situation(s)…

and then GIVE THEM TO GOD the Creator or Mother Earth… whichever you feel is appropriate (release them back to the Universe and forgive unconditionally)!

When I started to do this… I found…

1) My life began to take turns in a positive direction
2) The heaviness and burden I carried went away
3) I could see people clearly and could understand their struggle
4) I realized it was never my struggle in the first place
5) I FELT SO MUCH BETTER (body, mind, and soul)

You guys… these are our soul lessons (our life’s work!) We are not built to carry around the ugly negative emotions that we all seem to hold on to….

Truly look at the person who hurt you.. truly ask yourself “Why did he/she do that to me? What is going on (or what happened) in their life that made them act the way they did?

When you do this, you will see, know, an understand that…


The energy of their hurts and struggles were never yours in the first place…..

In order to live a happy, healthy, an abundant life.. you must FORGIVE ALWAYS!

I continue every day to help people in the clinic who come see me for healing to understand that…

Your Mother’s Pain …is NOT your pain!

Your Father’s Pain… is NOT your pain!

Your Ancestor’s Pain.. is NOT your pain!!

This is old paradigm stuff….. many of us were taught to carry the Burdon of everyone around us and many of us carry it like Jesus carried his cross. We just unknowingly believe that we must do this to help heal the suffering of others. Somewhere in our sensitivities, we misunderstood what it means to help heal the suffering of others…… we thought we must carry the load, because energetically it felt like noone else was gonna do it!

But…. in the New Paradigm we are all headed towards…

We finally open our hearts enough to realize and truly understand what it means…

In order for Humanity to truly heal from all of the generations of suffering, we must each work on our own inner wounds…..

We must learn that…….When you forgive and resolve deep inner conflict within yourself..

You are releasing and resolving deep inner conflict for all of Humanity as a side affect…

You do it for all of the collective…..

We all do!

This doesn’t mean that you are saying what they did to you was ok… this doesn’t mean that you do not deserve better (because you do!)

What this means is that you accept things for what they are, and you decide to see the bigger picture, look at it from the other person’s point of view… and you take back control of your own reality!

By working on these things (traumas and hurts) that hold us back, due to their negative energy…

By releasing the past and forgiving… we help ourselves move forward in clear, positive, loving, and forgiving energy!

You do not have to forgive for the benefit of the other person.. NOPE!

The Human part of you may not be ready to give benefit to your crucifier quite yet (that will come in time, with more and more heart healing, I promise you that)…..

But subconsciously, you benefit their soul too.. SO when you forgive you are choosing to take the higher path… to be the one who releases the bondage for you both!

Because…. when you decide to focus on healing your own heart of these things….

You are both freed of stuck and stagnant energy that is between you both…

When you Forgive and accept things truly for what they are.. see the soul lessons in it for both sides… and see the higher meaning……

Learn from it… and move forward……

You give yourself a huge love gift too!!

You forgive, because it is what is best for you and your well being…

By letting this go, you are releasing what you cannot control and learning and growing as a human being (and a soul)….

you do not even have to tell the person they are forgiven if you do not want to…..

but in your heart (chakra) you know that you have done your life’s work..

you have learned from the experience and by letting it go and embracing the positive in the situation (even if the positive is that you are able to release and forgive)…..

BUT… by doing this, you are pulling more positive experiences into your life…

And when you forgive, you release Judgement that you hold in your Heart….

Your vibration raises and one more petal in your heart chakra lotus opens up..

wide open in abundance…….

You will no longer attract situations such as that….

Why you ask?


When you focus on the negative and continue to tell your story as if you are a victim…. you continue to pull that into your life!

BUT… but releasing the fear, hurt, and negative emotions and forgiving… you are pulling happier and healthier situations into your existence!

Even Jesus forgave those who crucified him… for they “Know not what they do”…..

Live in your heart…. love unconditionally… and balance that Heart Chakra!!!

When your Heart chakra is balanced and elevated…. you will easily be able to FORGIVE!

If you need help working on your heart chakra, I am happy to work with you and help you to heal and be the very best version of you that you can be!!

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Many blessings to you all.. love and light….

NAMASTE (the divine in me hails the divine in you)


Becky Jo

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