THE HEALING POWER OF GRATITUDE

If we look at gratitude itself, we find that it always arises as we become conscious of our relationship to someone or something. When we’re grateful, we recognize the intrinsic, beneficial value of the object (whether a person, being, thing, or condition); but even more fundamentally, we perceive an underlying connection between it and ourselves.

A feeling of belonging suffuses our gratitude. This feeling runs much deeper than a mere commerce of values, where the coin of exchange is only personal satisfaction.

Gratefulness connects us to the heart, for it is here that all relationships in longing, love, sympathy, and compassion resolve in a point of unity. ….

Gratitude is a very unique energy and when we are great-full we pull in powerful vortexes of vaccuum like energy (I see it therfor I am not sure how else to explain it lol)…….That “Vaccuum like” energy around you pulls in more and more and more to be great-full for!

We still maintain the distinctions between ‘you’ and ‘me’, ‘I’ and ‘world’, but not the walls of separateness that keep us isolated and disconnected.

Our disharmonies, brought back to the magnetic pole of the heart, realign with life’s rich wholeness, which is what authentic healing is all about.

Here then, we discover gratitude’s healing power, seeing opportunity for growth in the midst of troubles, embracing the wisdom of beginnings and endings, and tolerating limitations while striving for better ways.

In these and a thousand other ways we see the unity of life articulating its sanctity in myriad dynamics of relationship. …..

We begin to breathe with the universe… instead of Against it or beneath it… we align WITH IT!!!

Please keep in mind the power of Gratitude!

I know we all seem to think about being “Thankful” during the Holiday season, especially during November.

BUT…Gratitude and Truly feeling Thankful for our day to day blessings packs a whole lot of power into our lives (more then most realize)...

For when we not only speak of the Blessings in our lives but we truly envision that which we are great-full for (feel it)…. and our hearts are filled with Love and Gratitude for all we have and all we are, and all we have been through…it brings a whole lot more of what we Love to our lives!

Even more powerful and important is…truly feeling gratitude for the things that have happened in our lives that weren’t so happy…that weren’t so fun…. that weren’t so easy…. that may have even brought us to our knees (in more ways then one)….

For those are the things that we forget to see as blessings……

We sometimes do not recognize that they can be the biggest blessings of all…

because they force us to change and grow and learn and heal……

because they are meant to show us what is in the way of our complete inner peace….

and when we are thankful and great-full for our lessons, even when they weren’t easy…..

We are truly aligning with God’s Will…… and our own!

When you can soften your heart and change your perspective just a tad….to see that you are not being punished or judged by the Universe…but in fact BLESSED… it pulls in an ABUNDANCE of things to be GREAT-FULL for!

I know you all have heard me speak of the vibration scale (it is one of my favorite tools)…

Gratitude doesn’t even fit on the vibration scale because the vibration of the emotion (feeling) of Gratitude is too high….

Every single one of us has blessings in our lives, every single one of us have things to be great-full for, and every single one of us has the power to pull more of that into our lives.

So instead of saying “I am unlucky” or “I have nothing”…

instead say “I am very lucky and blessings flow freely to me.. I am thankful for that!”

OR…..

“I have many blessings in my life, and every day more blessings come to me easily!”

BE thankful you guys….. for there is always someone out there that has less than you!

BE great-full you guys… because you are unique and only you can be you!

God has uniquely created your blueprint and only you can fulfill your life’s purpose!

Even if you do not have any (or many) family members to share birthdays, holidays and celebrations with, or you are alone… you are still BLESSED beyond measure!!!

Because you are alive, you woke up…. you have another chance to get it right today!

Its totally up to you….

When we are living in the energy of GRATITUDE

and we truly feel it in our hearts (and our souls)….

we easily attract more to be thankful for into our lives!!

The Struggle in life ends when the Gratitude begins – Unknown

Sending you love and blessings and much healing during this time of transition and growth on the planet…

God Bless you!

~ Becky Jo

Manifesting Miracles in your life!

The time is NOW….. YOU are the one…… THIS IS THE PLACE!!!!!

When it comes to Manifesting, I can honestly say that lately my skills are on point! I have been noticing lately that simply little things that I am thinking about, I am literally making happen… sometimes within a few minutes!

I mean I have been very good at manifesting since I was a child (even though at the time I didn’t understand or realize what I was doing. I only knew that I would say things or think things that then they would happen…. I guess I must have thought everyone was doing this ……)

But…

This level of creating my own experiences has never happened like this before…… but I think with all of the shifts happening on the planet in the past year and all of the years of true soul work I have done, I finally have arrived at the beginning of Manifesting Miracles in my life on a whole new level.

SO this past week, 3 opportunities clearly presented themselves for me to help others and I absolutely without hesitation heard the call and spread the blessings…..

This is a MIRACULOUS lifestyle that I live………. me and the Universe doing everything we can to make someone else’s life a bit easier….

AND YOU….. CAN DO IT TOO!!!!!

All you have to do is align with the high vibrations of your MIRACLE ZONE…. we all have it, we all need to learn how to know and recognize when we are in it!!!!!

If you do not know how to get there…. then I will share with you a few first steps that might lead you to the next level of your being…

WARNING: MAY CAUSE MIRACLES

Ready for the New You?

READY FOR MANIFESTING MIRACLES?

GREAT…. then follow along with me, as I take you on an amazing journey of creating the life that you truly want (and were meant to live)…I can promise you, that your life will change for the better in many miraculous ways.

Can I promise you that you will get the life of your dreams and manifest miracles by reading my series of posts?

Of course not… because that is truly UP TO YOU!

All I can do is give you the tools and the information that I know and use…..

The things that have led me to the life of my dreams, which I am truly living right now; and it continues to get better and better every single day!

The more that I do my soul work, learn my lessons, let them go…The more I am pulling in humble gratitude and appreciation for the Human journey, and self love and light; The more my life is filled with more and more joy, abundance, bliss and all that is MIRACULOUS….!!!!!

You can to this too….I am not some special… magical person …..We all are!

We are all creators… we are all amazing… we are all magical!!!

BUT...The difference between most normal every day people and me is…I truly and completely BELIEVE in this stuff…..(law of attraction, manifesting, that we are all meant to live the life of our dreams.. our life’s purpose……)

AND…I truly believe and know for certain that every single thing I have ever gone through in my life was FOR A REASON!

I truly believe that all of the traumas and horrific things I have been through … were not in vane! I was meant to go through it, so that I can help other’s get through it!

I truly believe that if I feel it, I can heal it!

I truly believe that I have Spirit Guides and Angels showing me, speaking to me, and trying to help me manifest miracles!

I truly believe that life is an amazing journey….. and if you can imagine it… you can create it… if you can create it… then you can live it!

AND…..I truly believe that if I set my mind to it.. I CAN DO IT!

You guys…I can tell you for sure that the Universe is energy. We are all energy…. emotions are energy…..We (and everything on this planet) are vibrating!

(uh oh… here I go with the vibration scale again… lol in 5…4…3…2..1)

I cannot stress to you enough that when we are carrying emotions that are low on the vibration scale….Then that is where we are resonating (vibrating)…

If we are carrying hate in our hearts, un-forgiveness, shame, guilt, fear, grief, anger, pride (ego)…Or any of the lower vibrating emotions….Then you will not be able to manifest anything that is positive and loving!

Why? Because you are too heavy… literally… too weighed down (body, mind, soul)!

Your energetic field is so heavy.. dense… and low…That all you will do is keep manifesting and attracting things, situations, and people that are at the same vibration as you!

But…What if you could truly let go of what is weighing you down and keeping your vibration low?

Because...…When you do your soul work and learn your lessons… and truly move on……

THEN…..Your energy starts to raise… your vibration starts to raise…your life begins to turn and you start to feel great!

The greater you feel, the more joy you can feel….The more joy you feel then you start to feel gratitude….When you are thankful for the blessing in your life of peace…Then you receive more….Once you feel complete inner peace….Then you reflect that out into the world….People feel that vibe from you and your day to day life starts to change!

When your day to day life starts to change, then you start to change your mind…

When you change your mind, you begin to see the world from a completely different window of perception and your thoughts begin to morph from seeing the worst in everything to a brighter view and your brain starts to kick out more “feel good” hormones, which help wipe your windshields clean and your auto-pilot starts to kick out more positive thinking, gratitude and appreciation…..

When you feel gratitude and appreciation for everything (even things that weren’t so pleasant, but you know were on purpose to teach you something)…You open your heart…..

Then, by that point, you have begun your healing journey of peeling back the layers….you have already healed and let go of what was immediately weighing you down…. you have decided to live in joy, love, and peace!

Once you get to this point, you have made a complete change in your life and it just becomes habit …..

Once your habits change from making the wrong un-empowering choices and decisions…to making the most empowering and loving and positive decisions…you are unstoppable!

SO…. today I ask you …DO YOU WANT TO LIVE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS?

If the answer is yes….Then it starts right here… right now!

TRULY commit to taking the next 2 days to do a mass energy clearing…

Start out with clearing and aligning your personal energy field with your higher self (The highest light and resonance of your be-ing)…

Whatever practices or rituals, prayers, meditations, etc. work best for you…

There is no right or wrong way…

Only you can tell when you are connected to the higher and more wise version of yourself darling…

you just know deep inside…

you will feel so much connection…

your body mind, and soul will feel so full of your own SOUL ENERGY… FREQUENCY….. LOVE!

You will be in your MIRACLE ZONE

Clear your path for MIrACLeS

Here is what I suggest you do in the next 2 days

1) Write down the things in your life that are bringing in emotions that are less then Love, joy, and complete inner Peace! (Be honest with yourself.. you have lied to yourself for too long… you deserve happiness and peace!)

2) Go through your list one by one and Ask your Heavenly Helpers, Angels and/or God (source) to be with you…. ask yourself “What is the lesson I am supposed to learn here?”. Be open to allowing yourself to see it from God’s Eyes. I like to allow myself to see it from the perspective of the other person as well. Once you know, you can let go….

3) Give yourself permission to let go of anything that is not empowering. Finally being open to knowing that you must take responsibility in all of the roles you have played in scenerios you hold resentment, blame, or even anger towards another human about. (Remember that you are the only one that is being poisoned by holding grudges and judgements)

4) Make the conscious decision that going forward, you will not allow any of the things on your list to be a part of your demise.

5) Change your mind! It is high time that you stop the pattern of drinking the victimhood kool-aid. Because it is very easy to keep telling the stories of being a victim.. because the things that happened to us were not easy. We truly went through them and we truly suffered… there is no doubt about it! But you are no longer living that life (I hope), so it is not your story anymore. Start to truly allow yourself to embrace the wholeness of your be-ing that you were before the traumas took your light away. Bring to mind who you are when you are in your innocence… feel it and open your heart’s door to believing that you are happy, healthy, and whole…. because outside of the negative beliefs you have about yourself and anyone else… you ARE!

6)LET IT GO! GIVE IT TO GOD (source, universe, Great Spirit, etc….)..….Letting go is challenging, and sometimes you have to do it again and again and again until it sticks. AND THEN MOVE ON! With all of your dignity intact and with your heart open and ready (excited) about the open space you are creating….which will then leave room to bring in the best days of your life!

BUT…what if……You show it to the door, and somehow it keeps creeping back in?

WELL…When this happens and I am certain it will (until you get into better habits and patterns….) …Then you gently guide it back out…of your mind!

Let the thought come in… give it appreciation, understanding and acceptance… but then gently let it go again… we must give it attention, because it is just trying to show us what we are still working on healing.

I will share a secret with you that you might not yet realize…these thoughts stop coming when you actually take the time to understand why you are having them and work it out within yourself.

During my healing journey, I would take the time to invite these thoughts to be heard. Why? Because they are pieces and parts of you that feel unheard, unloved, unvalued, unappreciated, or may have a negative belief about something that happened in the past.

When you allow yourself to actually take a peek at the person inside of you (most likely the child or adolescent within you that is having a major misunderstanding with yourself about you or someone else. (Ask yourself why you believe that…is it a belief you mirrored from another person or did you make this up? Can you let that belief go?)

These are the patterns that your guides, angels and higher selves are trying to show you, so that you can recognize what is blocking your highest forms of light, abundance, and miracles…

The clue here is gently…It is as true for letting go as it is for any type of change…What you resist persists…so do not resist it.. accept it (the thought)… thank it for it’s lessons… and let it go!

HONEY….. The key to letting go is embracing acceptance (and forgiveness)….There cannot be release until you accept it for what it is… learn from it.. and LET IT GO!

And just like acceptance, letting go is a practice. Consciously deciding and repeatedly acting is the way.

Personally, I practice acceptance and letting go the same way I practice meditation…….every single day….. with intention and purpose.

Bravely, humbly and gently. …..Truly.

For the past 5 years, I have been diligently and intentionally working on letting go of my story too!

After years of analyzing and agonizing over the past, I am becoming increasingly ready to let go of what happened to me. At this point in my life, it no longer serves me to identify as the victim… I AM so much more than that (and SO ARE YOU!).

For me, letting my story go means accepting the parts of me that are shaped by my traumatic experiences.

Letting go of my story means being fully present, without burying myself in memories or despair.

And most importantly, letting go of my story means learning to see myself as whole, and healed, not broken…Holy and Divine and nothing less!

In addition to faithfully committing to let go in my mind, repeatedly, every time I fall back into old ways – I am working on opening myself up both energetically and emotionally.

Every time I start to feel like I am that abandoned little girl, who feels not enough-ness…. scared……not loved….I purposely put myself in my place… immediately!

I remind myself that I am more then enough….. I remind myself that the adults in my life when I was growing up were not living in their hearts… they were hurting… they just did the very best they knew how to do…I remind myself that I am not living in that abusive relationship anymore where my 10 year old son watched me get beat to a bloody pulp….that was years ago….

I remind myself that any and all traumas I have experienced and faced were for a purpose and I appreciate every single one of them, because they made me the strong and resilient woman I am today!

I remind myself that ever since I truly started to take responsibility for my actions and decisions in my life….My life got much better…I am not living in chaos anymore!

I remind myself that I love my life and love the people I allow to be in my life ( I no longer allow dysfunctional relationships at any level into my life)!

I send love, peace, and all things positive to everyone who ever hurt me or destroyed me or took away my power and light!

The way I let go is active and spiritual, symbolic and visual….

LISTEN…there are so many spiritual ceremonies and rituals out there that energetically, and emotionally help you release what no longer serves…

Such as writing down what no longer serves and then burning the paper after you realize you no longer need that in your life…

I am telling you to burn your list that I had you make in #1… burn it and ask your Angels and God to take it…transmute it in to LOVE or above!!!!

It will help you make the intangible clear and definite!

It will help you to know and BELIEVE that God has your back and is willing to take your burdens from you too if you allow it!

ALLOW IT….. it is beautiful and healing!

And in this, YOU are connecting with YOUR power!

I WANT YOU TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK…Because in today’s society, we are taught that we are powerless and have to settle for living under someone else’s rules!

We are brought up believing that the only power we have is to choose the simple things in life like the food we eat, where we live, who we date(marry) etc etc etc….

We are taught that we cannot have our own beliefs, our own thoughts, our own way of life… or our own power…

Because if you do, you will not fit in….I say forget about that!

BE IN YOUR TRUTH….. God intended every single one of us to live in love and manifest the life of our dreams!!!

Let’s Manifest the lives of our DREAMS right here… right now… together!

I know for sure I was not sent here on Earth in this lifetime, right now… for no reason!

I am truly connected to myself on all levels and I can feel that bigger, better, and more beautiful things are coming to our planet!

But it is up to us to raise the vibration of our beloved Earth.. so she can shift into the best version of herself too!!!

LET’S LIVE IN LOVE OR ABOVE…. on that vibration scale!! LOVE YOURSELF first… no matter what ANYONE says!

Stay positive…

Help out fellow human beings when they need us…

Give without expecting anything…

Appreciate what we have…

AND DREAM BIG!!

IF YOU CAN IMAGINE IT… YOU CAN CREATE IT…BELIEVE IT…CAN I get an AMEN?

Sending you all peace, love, joy, and the energy of letting go of all that drama and trauma stuff…

I cannot wait to get this journey started and manifest miracles in our lives!

After we let go of what no longer serves… then all we have left to do is change some of the beliefs that are not empowering…

then we can work on the manifesting….

ARE YOU READY FOR THIS?

I hope so… because this is going to be MIRACULOUS!

Many blessings of love and light and MIRACLES…

From my soul to yours,

xoxoxoxoxo

~Becky Jo~

Breaking Free of the Cocoon

Flying high above limitations!

Today I awoke with the most glorious of energies of love in my mind, body, and soul……. I cannot even begin to explain the PROFOUND experiences I have been having in the past 2 weeks (things that normal Humans would never believe…. but I just smile and say “I know that was you God, Jesus, Guides, Angels…” and I say “Thank you for this day spirit, thank you for this day”……..

Opportunities that I could have only dreamed of even 3 months ago falling on my lap…….. people and connections I could have only wished for happening smoothly and easily….. and not to mention the absolutely incredible visions I have been having (cannot put into Human words)…

That moment when you are humbled by life because the fruits of all of your hard work, dedication, perseverance, FAITH, and HOPE are all around you in clear sight.

You realize it was all worth it.. all of it… the struggle, the loss, the pain, the heartbreak, the fear, the incredibly long sleepless nights of not knowing how you will ever be ok again.

The meaningful sacrifices that you made, because you knew in your entire soul that it would eventually change your life for the better (and even better than that)……You push through it all and you press on, no matter how much you just want to be done with life…. done with it all…..

I mean, you have been here before (too many times… more then you wan to admit)… the same situations, the same types of people, the same losses…. over and over and over..

Without Fail, the outcome seems to end up the same….BUT thIS TIME was different….THIS TIME……

You finally decide to take a deeper look at what isn’t working in your life, so that you can ultimately re-wire your subconscious mind and reprogram your beliefs and patterns and loops that are creating this same scenario ..change your thoughts….. change your beliefs……change your mind……. change your life they say…SO ….

You spend some time in silence… lots of time in silence……..delving deep within and looking very deeply into that mirror that reflects your energy, your body, your mind, your soul……all of you from the moment of creation until this moment…and you for the first time in this lifetime (and possibly ever in any lifetime) ….

ask yourself…..WHO ARE YOU (Who am I?) ??????

WHY AM I HERE?

WHAT IS THE LESSON(s)?

HOW AM I CREATING THIS PATTERN? (Where did it start?)

WHAT JUDGEMENTS AM I MAKING HERE (that are not serving my highest good)?

and then…..you sit…..IN SILENCE………….UNTIL………………..The revelations come (oh and they do)…..BUT THIS TIME…..

Although you have heard this all before, from the self, from your friends, family, and others around you…. your guides and angels…

This time you are truly ready to and willing to and able to LISTEN and LeARN… and GROW……THis TIME…... You truly are ready to evolve like never before…..

you have felt the calling for quite a while and you know it is truly time to remove the pressures and shine like the diamond you have been polishing for so many lifetines!

AND…THIS TIME…… you finally look at yourself without judgement, without shame, releasing the fear and guilt… letting go of everything you have always thought you were….. releasing anyone and everyone’s views of who and what you are…

Letting go of all that you appeared to be in this lifetime……

Letting go of all that you have been (for it was never really you anyway…

only a fraction, a shell, a cocoon, a small teensy fleck of what you know you could be)….RELEASING, RE-WIRING, RE-PROGRAMMING your being…..

Because this time, you ultimately know that every single person place and thing that has come into your path in this (and every) lifetime was not to harm you but to help you….

you change your perception and you elevate your vibration like never before….you are no longer stuck in the old loops of feeling like a victim….

OH NO….FOR YOU BECOME THE VICTOR!!!!

For the first time ever in the history of ever…YOU FINALLY GET IT!!!!

BREAKING FREE….. HATCHING!!!!

So in the understanding that everything in the Universe is here to help you (not harm you like you originally had thought)…..

You BREAK FREE…….

From everything that has ever held you back from aligning and fulfilling your highest destiny!!!

You are no longer held back by anyone or anything or beliefs that no longer serve!!!

YOU ARE A CLEAR SLATE…….. HARD WIRED FOR THE HIGHEST SUCCESS AND PROBABILITIES!!!

And in this, you feel so free…. so fresh.. so new!

The things that once destroyed your heart, you are very great-full for (because they taught you all you needed to know for this moment)…..and at the same time….

You feel how deeply you are connected to your own soul…. you feel so whole (above any wholeness you have ever felt)….

and as you raise in vibration…

more and more love fills those voids…

where you once looked for approval from others…. you stand to approve of yourself….

where you once searched outside of yourself for your “Other half”; you finally realize is WITHIN YOU.…..

You were there the whole time….. complete, whole…

HOLY in mind, body, and spirit….and wonder for a moment……

How could I have ever let anyone else take my power away?

How could have I ever let someone else tell me I was less than beautiful?

How could have I ever let anyone tell me I am not a miracle?

How could anyone fail to notice how deeply you are connected to your soul?

BUT YOU DON”T STAY THERE…. you just reflect on how differently you see it now…..and in that moment, you realize you have ascended to the next level of your being..

You have graduated…. you have completed the cycle… mastered it……you look down and you are now off the ground….

And just when you realize you have hatched and have taken flight …..

you all of a sudden realize how blessed you are….

you always have been… always will be!

You see nothin but Heaven on Earth all around you…….

in the clouds, the Sun and the Moon!

You can literally feel all of the Universe conspiring to co-create WITH YOU……

Its a vibration, its an energy…. you feel it flow through you, for you realize you are a drop of love in the great web of life!

And that LOVE is freely flowing THROUGH YOU………

So you flap those wings, and although you cannot see your own unique and beautiful wings….

those around you can and they feel the vibration when they come into contact with you…..

so all of the healing you did on yourself then reflects in loving kindness to all who see, feel, and connect with you..BY THE TIME this happens……

You know without a shadow of doubt how LOVED you are by the Universe and you are humbled like never before…

you have taken a different path this time….

the highest one….

without limitations……

Through the Grace of all of the compassion and LOVE in this entire Universe………..

NOW IS THE TIME………. YOU ARE NEEDED…… TAKE FLIGHT…….. SOAR>>>>>>>>>>”Peace to all…. life to all…. love to all…. your holy name!”

xoxoxoxoxoxo~Rebecca JO~

Do you truly Love yourself?

What is “Self Love” and how do we practice this?

Do you hear what I hear?

Self-love is a popular term today that gets tossed around in normal conversation. “You have to love yourself more.” “Why don’t you love yourself?” “If you only loved yourself, this wouldn’t have happened to you.” “You can’t love another person until you love yourself first.”

These are just a few of the self-love directives that we give or get to suggest a way to more living fulfillment.

Self-love is important to living well. It influences who you pick for a mate, the image you project at work, and how you cope with the problems in your life. It is so important to your welfare that I want you to know how to bring more of it into your life.

what is “Self Love” then?

What is self-love, then? Is it something you can buy in a beauty makeover or a new set of clothing?

Can you get more of it by reading something inspirational?

Or, can a new relationship make you love yourself more?

The answer to all of these questions is No!

Although they feel good and are gratifying, you can’t grow in self-love through these types of activities. Since, self-love is not simply a state of feeling good.

Self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth.

Self-love is dynamic; it grows by actions that mature us.

When we act in ways that expand self-love in us, we begin to accept much better our weaknesses as well as our strengths, have less need to explain away our short-comings, have compassion for ourselves as human beings struggling to find personal meaning, are more centered in our life purpose and values, and expect living fulfillment through our own efforts.

The Great Louise Hay once said

“When people start to love themselves more each day, it’s amazing how their lives get better. They feel better. They get the jobs they want. They have the money they need. Their relationships either improve, or the negative ones dissolve and new ones begin.”

Louise Hay

What is love anyway?

Life is a voyage of self discovery……….

To me, to be enlightened (Within your own light)It’s not selfish to love ourselves. It clears us so that we can love ourselves enough to love other people. We can really help the planet when we come from a space of great love and joy on an individual basis.

It is to go within and to know who and what we really are, and to know that we have the ability to change for the better by loving and taking care of ourselves.

The Power that created this incredible Universe has often been referred to as love.

GOD IS LOVE

We have all often heard the statement: Love makes the world go ’round.

It’s all true. Love is the binding agent that literally holds the Universe together… its an energy.. a frequency.. a FORCE….

To me, love is a deep appreciation.

When I talk about loving ourselves, I mean having a deep appreciation for who we are. We accept all the different parts of ourselves—our little peculiarities, the embarrassments, the things we may not do so well, and all the wonderful qualities, too.

We accept the whole package with love. Unconditionally.​

What if I do not know how to love myself?

Listen, I definitely know how hard it is to step out of the box and truly see things from a different perspective…..

Unfortunately… society has had some very horrible habits in the past couple of thousands of years….. but that is why YOU are here! YES YOU…..

Each one of us walking the planet at this time came here to discovery LOVE and to understand it and to finally break through those barriers into a newer and better tomorrow for all of humanity…

but it starts with each of us individually….

Society teaches us that it is not ok to love thy self and unfortunately most people are trained to put “Conditions” on LOVE….especially self-love.

They say “I will love myself when I lose weight” or “I will love myself when I get the ideal job”…. or the house, or the mate, or whatever it is that society has taught them to believe they need to accomplish before they can start to focus on loving themselves

BUT YOU CAN CHANGE THAT…….

CHANGE YOUR MIND AND YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!!

CHANGE YOUR PERCEPTION AND YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS…..

We are in the midst of enormous individual and global change. I believe that all of us who are living at this time chose to be here to be a part of these changes, to bring about change, and to transform the world from the old way of life to a more loving and peaceful existence.

In the Piscean Age we looked “out there” for our savior: “Save me. Save me. Please take care of me.”

Now we are moving into the Aquarian Age, and we are learning to go within to find our savior.

We are the power we have been seeking. (and Jesus is within us …… he always was!)

We Are In Charge Of Our lives

If you are not willing to love yourself today, then you are not going to love yourself tomorrow, because whatever excuse you have today, you’ll still have tomorrow.

Maybe you’ll have the same excuse 20 years from now, and even leave this lifetime holding on to the same excuse.

Today is the day you can love yourself totally with no expectations.

Love is something we can choose, the same way we choose anger, or hate, or sadness.

We can choose to forgive someone who has hurt us (cuz they know not what they do.. literally) and begin to finally heal…..

We can choose to be grateful for what we have. (Even if it isn’t exactly what we want at the moment.. with more self love the energy will shift and you will bring heaven to Earth in many areas of your life)….

We can choose love………….SELF LOVE…….. It’s always a choice within us.

ok I choose self love… how do I practice this?

  1. Become mindful. People who have more self-love tend to know what they think, feel and want. They are mindful of who they are and act on this knowledge, rather than on what others want for them. Truly believe in yourself and your soul mission and stick to that.. period!
  2. Act on what you need rather than what you want. You love yourself when you can turn away from something that feels good and exciting to what you need to stay strong, centered, and moving forward in your life, instead. By staying focused on what you need, you turn away from automatic behavior patterns that get you into trouble, keep you stuck in the past, and lessen self-love.
  3. Practice good self-care. You will love yourself more, when you take better care of your basic needs. People high in self-love nourish themselves daily through healthy activities, like sound nutrition, exercise, proper sleepintimacy and healthy social interactions.
  4. Set boundaries.  AND STICK TO THEM…You’ll love yourself more when you set limits or say no to work, love, or activities that deplete or harm you physically, emotionally and spiritually, or express poorly who you are.
  5. Protect yourself. Bring the right people into your life. I love the term frenemies that I learned from my younger clients. It describes so well the type of “friends” who take pleasure in your pain and loss rather than in your happiness and success. My suggestion to you here: Get rid of them by choosing to lovingly leave them in the past. There isn’t enough time in your life to waste on people who want to take away the shine on your face that says, “I genuinely love myself and life”. You will love and respect yourself more…. the more difficult people you release from your life… the more your vibration raises and happier more loving people will arrive (when you are happier and more loving of you)
  6. FORGIVE yourself. We humans can be so hard on ourselves. The downside of taking responsibility for our actions is punishing ourselves too much for mistakes in learning and growing (STOP IT)…. You have to accept your humanness (the fact that you are not perfect), before you can truly love yourself. Practice being less hard on yourself when you make a mistake. Remember, there are no failures, if you have learned and grown from your mistakes; there are only lessons learned.
  7. Live intentionally……. You will accept and love yourself more, whatever is happening in your life, when you live with purpose and design. Your purpose doesn’t have to be crystal clear to you. If your intention is to live a meaningful and healthy life, you will make decisions that support this intention, and feel good about yourself when you succeed in this purpose. You will love yourself more if you see yourself accomplishing what you set out to do. You need to establish your living intentions, to do this.

If you choose just one or two of these self-love actions to work on, you will begin to accept and love yourself more. Just imagine how much you’ll appreciate you when you exercise these seven-steps to self-love.

It is true that you can only love a person as much as you love yourself.

If you exercise all of the actions of self-love that I describe here, you will allow and encourage others to express themselves in the same way. The more self-love you have for yourself, the better prepared you are for healthy relating. Even more, you will start to attract people and circumstances to you that support your well-being.

Listen… I know this doesn’t happen overnight and in order to truly have self-love, we must re-program our belief system….

ONE DAY AT A TIME… but step by step and day by day….. things will start to flow and life will become more then you ever imagined it could be… JUST BY LOVING YOURSELF!

YOU GOT THIS!!

I LOVE YOU SOUL MUCH

XOXO

Becky Jo

Creating a new life

Every single one of us is looking for some sort of change in our lives right now at this moment…

Most have made New Years resolutions that we have already tried for 20 years in a row, which last on an average of 2-3 weeks, and then we spend the rest of the year shaming ourselves for not being the person we truly deeply want to be in this life!

If we are not shaming or blaming ourselves for not succeeding in “creating our own realities”…..we flip and shame and blame the world or other people for our own deep feelings of inconsistency and incompleteness that we deal with…while putting on a smile or a fake it til we make it attitude in hopes that noone knows how truly effed up we think we are inside!

To boot…. we complain more than we celebrate our blessings…

Humans just love to make problems for ourselves, which then create holes in our hearts that become the emptiness that we  feel!

And then instead of being brave enough to dare to speak up, standup, honor ourselves and others around us…instead of finding solutions….

Humans will then create problems and disharmony within to have “proof” in the mind that the original holes are still leaking!

Why? Because it gives us excuses or reasons why we absolutely cannot move forward in our lives (it gives us that grand story to tell others why we could never be whole again!)….

So every day, you pray to God (whoever you pray to) to please fill these holes and voids in with higher power….

Although your prayers are being answered and you are being filled with so much love and light from the Universe…

You absolutely cannot feel it…. you don’t see it….you deny it!!

Why?

Because like a bucket with holes in it…..the love and strength and heavenly (div8ne) intellegence that is being sent to you is leaking out…pouring out….. missing the mark!

Until you actually bravely decide that you want to intentionally patch up the holes…

The more you complain or blame and shame yourself and others ….. the bigger the holes and voids get!

Until you have the strength and courage to admit the ways you have been doing things hasn’t worked up to this point…

Until you expose yourself to your deepest darkest fears and allow yourself to process the causes, reasons, and emotions that are keeping you in a cage…

You will remain disappointed with life and disconnected from actually living!

You will remain in jobs that you hate, just to get by…

You will stay in relationships that are not fullfilling just to feel like you have some sort of stability (even though the opposite is true)…

You will remain idle… never manifesting what you truly want.

You can do all the spiritual hokey pokey you want…

You can spend all the money in the world…

But until you fill those holes in… you will continue to leak and spill your bad juju on others (knowingly or unknowingly)….

So today… can we please just take the time to understand our holes and voids and how to fill them!

Here’s some tips on how I began to fill them to get where I am today (not perfect…but my life has become so much simpler because I do not stew over things that I cannot control..I do not live in fear of what might or might not happen anymore)

1) sit with yourself in silence and allow yourself to feel the holes and voids..leaks

2) be brave and allow yourself to connect with the emotions that come up with the leaks.

3) envision yourself bringing love, understanding, excitement, happiness in to patch up your holes. (Human emotion is one of the things we have complete control over and we can ignite a spark of forgiveness at any given moment we choose to!)

4) think about the positive change that will easily come to your life and your family…your children if you have them if you patched up the hole by letting it be done and over with!

5) create a new way of positive passion instead of negative obsession

6) If for any reason, you are feeling like you will not be able to do any of these steps or your not ready to patch a particular hole yet… that’s fine tell yourself you accept that you cannot at this time..do not shame yourself…however at least make a deal with yourself that you promise to stop talking about it (stop complaining about it)

7) make a new habit of co creating positive choices with the universe… let everything you do going forward be done through your spirit…not your mind.

8) End with a prayer…

Dear Father Mother God…. every particle in this great Universe and to myself… I am absolutely comitted to do my best to patch these leaks, to make change…to accept what I cannot change. From this moment forward I will push forth into a new life where I truly commit to change what I can. I am ready to make a change in my life and the power of the Universe is with me, in me and through me…its Gods will…its what I always wanted anyway….happiness…abundance…I am just now finally allowing it to come forward!
If anything shall step in the way..please give me the clarity to help me dismantle any object in front of me!
God….I am finally prepared to live like a master instead of like a victim…for the highest good of myself and all of Humanity..and so it is!

Finding your INNER GOD or GODDESS

A Winter Solstice Healing Transmission to show us the way today and Always

Making the choice to plant your roots amongst Adversity…

Happy Winter Solstice to you!

As we all already know, there is something quite different, magical, special about this years change in the seasons!

Humanity is changing, evolving, growing so fast it has made our heads spin at times this year. But with extreme evolution always comes extreme choices that must be made in order to expand into the path we weren’t meant to walk!

Making the choice to plant your roots amongst Adversity has been a Universal theme all year and dear one, it is now time to truly focus on this!

There is something so magnificent in the Human Spirit when one chooses to believe in one’s self!

When we make the choice to channel love and release hate…. as a Soul having a Human Experience…

we are choosing to BELIEVE IN…..Life, Love, and the entire Universe….COSMOS….

Rally around us to strengthen and encourage us even further into our highest and best truth!

When we believe in ourselves…. we radiate magnitude…. which is a magnetic energetic force that lets all of creation know that we intend to plant the seed and put down the roots that will connect us to all of Heaven and Earth!!

We are making the choice in this now to live….not from a place of fear of death..

But instead a brave and bold, divinely defiant spirit that simply refuses to give up on what matters the most…

TO heal and prosper for ourselves and all of HUmanity!!!

If this resonates for you today, know that Heaven and Earth are cheering for you as the Universe knows that you have had your share of heartbreak and disappointment…

And yet….

Rather than bitterness in your heart and soul…you have….

CHOSEN LOVE….!!!!

The Mother and Father of all of creation has watched you as you have had your moments of doubt and despair….

and yet…

Deep in your heart and soul…

you always chose to continue on with this ultimate journey of transformation!!

You… beloved child have the spirit of the Gods and Goddesses within you…

Today the spirit of the Divine Feminine Mother rises within and all around you..

Just like the Universal symbol of strength, courage, vigor, and LOVE…

More than you yet realize…

you have the spirit of ISIS expressing herself in the Masculine as well as the Feminine aspects through you ………

and this is a message of love and light to let you know you are on the right track and to…

KEEP GOING>..

YOU SHALL PREVAIL!!

IF you are reading this, know it is a divine appointment for you to truly embody this message…

You are coming into the Dawning of a New Era…….

Please open yourself up to feel it…

You are in a significant Spiritual Awakening!!!

Moving into a new level…. new dimensions of reality are being shown to you..

You have passed through all of the required initiations your soul has chosen in this lifetime!

Sometimes we just need to know that everything is going to be ok..

and no matter how impossible the odds may seem…

If we know that it’s going to work out somehow, we will keep going…

We might not have any clue how it will work out…

BUT IF WE TRUST IN THE DIVINE…

It will be a matter of curiosity, rather than uncertainty that we hold towards our futures…

The spirit of ISIS is here on the planet right now…

Helping us shift without having to worry about the outcomes….

What does the ISIS Spirit have to do with you?

During the Ancient Egyptian mystery school traditions of the Goddess ISIS…

It has been said that she had to endure many trials..

She faced Heartbreak and devastating loss many ties over…

Her response to this was to continue evolving, using all of her power, strength, wisdom, and wit to conquer every single obstacle… one by one!

Her motivation was LOVE!

And although she could have given in to hate or despair, she did not!

So those of you who are reading this…

that have ever been asked to give up something or someone you truly loved in order to take your spiritual journey …

are also being initiated into the mystery school of ISIS…..

If you should choose to allow her presence to guide you at this time….

She will guide and empower you to become fearless..

You won’t be immune to pain, but nor will you be conquered by doubt…

If anything, or anyone tries to stop you or your complete success of your ultimate soul mission….

Just like ISIS, you shall pick up the gauntlet and win!!

NOTHING will defeat you if you just believe in yourself!!

ISIS teaches us that holding love in our hearts and refusing to allow bitterness or hatred to overcome us (or at least not for long….as we acknowledge it and feel it to heal it)…

Is the way to stay powerful and radiant on the path of life and success…

Even amongst some of the most difficult times!!

The GOddess Energy of ISIS is the equivalent to the spiritual embodiment of the saying ..

“Living well is the best revenge”

ISIS loves herself and loves life… without fail!

She wants you to learn to do the same.. with conviction of your soul mission!

She never puts herself down or judges herself..

She doesn’t take the actions of others personally…

Not even those whom actively seek to harm her…

She believes in her ability to do what she needs to do and gets on with it!

This spirit of ISIS that speaks to you right now through this transmission of love…

Which lives in you as your fighting spirit and sacred warrior, is urging you to NEVER GIVE UP!

She brings you the guidance today…

that YOU SHALL PREVAIL……LOVE ALWAYS WINS!!

So today, right now, if you see darkness in the world, and those that appear to be less deserving…winning….. above others who have more Virtue…

DO NOT BECOME DISHEARTENED….

Remember that the Universe IS LOVE and Karma… is clever!

Everything is working out according to a higher plan and you do not have to control a thing for the perfect balance of divine mercy and divine judgement to be expressed!!

ISIS isn’t interested in revenge and nor do you need to be…

She needs all her energy to create beautiful healing of reality to bring blessings to the world in which she lives..

She wants you to feel the power of love in your heart and soul and choose to do the same!

ANYTHING LESS IS NOT WORTHY OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL AND WILD SPIRIT!

Prayer for Integration of ISIS SPIRIT GUIDE ASSISTANCE

I call upon the Highest and best…most loving spirit of the Ancient GODDESS ISIS who loves me unconditionally.

I thank you ISIS for the Divine healing Empowerment you bring forth today and always…

May my sacred warrior Spirit be eternally empowered by LOVE…

May I fight always for LOVE through peace, dignity, and committed action towards what matters most to me and my highest path of eternal evolution.

May LOVE ALWAYS prevail through my own free will…

I choose of my own free will, through this and any lifetime, and through all layers of my entire being..

TO FORGIVE AND FREE MYSELF FROM ANY MEMORY OR EXPERIENCE…..

associated belief system of GIVING UP.

I choose now to honor the reality of my inner strength, my will to love, and my love for life!

May I be carried upon the powerful wings of ISIS who loves me …..

May all beings know the unassailable strength of LOVE within their hearts and souls…

May the LOVE in all beings prevail…..

May the UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF THE SPIRIT OF ISIS protect the hearts and souls of all living beings…

Through Divine Grace and unconditional LOVE….

May the Divine LOVE in the Heavens come down to Earth…

Through me…

May my own Divine presence and LOVE bring spiritual endurance and success…

May all beings fulfill their destinies…

According to the Divine Grace and in service to the Divine Feminine Wisdom evolving throughout Humanity at this time and always….

SO BE IT… AMEN…AHO

AFFIRMATION (SAY 3 TIMES): The Spirit of ISIS Rises within me, and through my empowered warrior heart. I Prevail…. LOVE PREVAILS….. HUMANITY Prevails!

xoxoxoxoxo

~Becky JO